Dear Family and Friends,
I've learned on my mission and in the few days upon return thereof that even though we leave friends who we may consider family, home is where the heart is. Being the poetic representation of where my desires and where the pure love of genealogical tides rest. Those who may have been left behind for a short season weather in Vegas or in Pueblo, I know I will see them again because of their spiritual ties I found with them.
This first week home has been great. It's not as weird as I was expecting. Upon seeing my family (which took an 8a.m. flight to Salt Lake and a layover until 3:40 to fly to Colorado Springs to finally see them) I met my Mom, Dad, Sister, her husband, my niece, and another niece that I've never met before! I had to say, "who is this?"
My parents then drove me to the Stake Presidents house to be released. As we were sitting talking I was just waiting for those words "you can take off your badge". That experience was rough but I'm content with knowing that I worked hard on the mission and that I did all I was supposed to.
Since my parents moved to Firestone, North Denver, it is extremely hard to go visit people in Pueblo (being a two and a half hour drive) so my some members of the ward put together a 'ward get together' at the pueblo west chapel. It was so kind of them and so exciting to see everyone! Some say I look older but I have my doubts :)
Then the next day my brothers and sisters started to trickle in. My brother and his family, my sister and her family... to save on time all my siblings came to stay a few days. It was great to have them here and to meet my new nieces/nephews. It was very thoughtful for all of them to travel as far as they did to come down. We were able to have good time to talk and share experiences. I'm still the 'baby' but its nice to also be considered an adult haha.
Saturday morning we hit some garage sales in Firestone then we all drove down to Pueblo and went on some kiddie rides for the grand-kids. Its so fun to see their faces light up when they get on the rides! I went on a ride with one of my sisters kids and it was a pretty rough ride for a kiddie ride. At first she was really tensed up and seemed really scared. But after the first go around she seemed to enjoy it and calm down a little (with a little help from me holding her).
Currently I'm trying to stay busy, which isn't hard because of everything I have to do. I signed up for classes at BYU-I this morning. Yesterday I was pretty stressed, making sure I got all the right classes and everything. Its great to already have an associate degree so I just have to worry about classes that deal with my real degree. That only means the classes are way more difficult, but at least I don't feel like I'm wasting time. I'm also trying to find a job; currently filling out a profile for the LDS Employment Center.
I've also changed my major to a Bachelor of Science with a Human Biology emphasis; keeping my options open. Its going to be really tough but I'm going to use my study skills and memorization skills from the mission! Time for normal life application of the things I've learned.
Well I haven't had as many spiritual experiences as I've had in previous weeks, but its all good.
Keep the Faith!
Love,
Devin John
"The acceptance of the reality that we are in the Lords loving hands is only a recognition that we have never really been anywhere else." - Neal A. Maxwell
Elder Devin John
Nevada Las Vegas West Mission
Monday, June 9, 2014
Monday, June 2, 2014
Transfer 17, Week 6, Lakes Stake, Desert Breeze Ward
Dear Family,
Wow. What a busy and great week!
So
I guess I'll start with Monday. We taught Anna and Grselda. They are so
cool. We read with them and they seem to be doing well. We had another
lesson with them Sunday night. We did 'CPR' or "go to Church, say your
Prayers, and Read your Scriptures". We did an object lesson with them
where you have to suspend a heavy object (such as my scriptures) in the
middle of 3 cups with knives supporting the object. Its a little
difficult to figure out the first time you do it but Anna got it after a
few tried! It was impressive and she was so excited! Its suppose to
represent each of the principles of the lesson, and without one of them
you cant support your life/heavy object. They are excited to be
baptized and Anna will be getting baptized probably in September after
she gets back from Mexico.
On Tuesday we had a great District Meeting. So
before we split up in districts we had a special speaker come in. I
found out who Elder Johnson's favorite Recent Convert was and it was
Samuel, from his first area on his mission. So I had Samuel come in as a
surprise to Elder Johnson. He was surprised and it was great to see his
reaction. Samuel spoke of his conversion and where he is now. He was
married in the temple and is working at Nellis Air Force Base. I hope it
gave the other missionaries some hope to see what can happen with the
people they work with.
Then we split up and I went with Elder Olive's District. We talked
about the whole armor of God and put on grass skirts and blew up blow up
swords, made our own shields and so on. It was fun :) We then watched
'Labor of Love' and had our closing song, "God be with you till we meet
again". I did pretty good with not crying until the prayer. I just sat
behind the piano and cried while the prayer was going on.
On Thursday was my departing interview with
President Ahlander. It was a good experience. All of the usual things.
Get an education and get married :)
Friday was our Temple
Trip. It was great to be in the temple with all the people I came out
with and to see how they have changed. We went to Golden Corral after...
and I was so sick! But only for that night :)
We also stopped by Brother Eldredge. His step son,
Brother Williams, died on Monday. He asked me to speak at his funeral on
Saturday morning. So we got to the funeral and our Relief Society
President wrapped me into playing the organ. So I played the organ, well
all but the first song since i didn't know how to play it. The funeral
went very well. Very upbeat and hopeful.
Then after the funeral we set up for Katherine's
Baptism. It was great! Probably one of the most spiritual baptisms I've
been to. she asked me to baptize her and it was a great experience. She
is a great person and I hope to see her again.
After the baptism we moved from the Bryans to the
Teshima's house. So that made us really busy. Then we had dinner at the
Godfreys with Ali (a Potential investigator), Sam (a Recent Convert),
Katherine, and another family in the ward the Lee's. It was great and
Katherine shared some of her amazing stories. She was asked to speak in
church next week. I bet it will be great!
Sunday was very emotional. I was asked to bear my
testimony and needless to say I cried a lot. I don't want to stop being a
missionary but I'll have to take off the tag. I felt really bad for
Elder Campbell cause everyone was coming up and saying that they will
miss me... but Elder Campbell is a good sport.
Elder Campbell and some other missionaries had a surprise for us
(Elder Johnson and me) on Tuesday after district meeting. they made a
parody song for us from the song, 'How can I be'. It was great. Elder
Campbell also had a friend back home look on the mission blog and my
personal blog to get pictures and create a slide show for me. It was
really thoughtful!
I love you all! thanks for the Support
Love,
Elder John
"We
can tell much by what we have already willingly discarded along the
pathway of discipleship. It is the only pathway where littering is
permissible, even encouraged. In the early stages, the debris left
behind included the grosser sins of commission. Later debris differs;
things begin to be discarded which has caused the misuse or under-use of
our time and talent." Elder Neal A. Maxwell
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
Transfer 17, Week 5, Lakes Zone, Desert Breeze Ward
Dear Family,
This week was great!!!!
I can't believe its week 5 already! This transfer has gone by super fast!
Well
this week we had an amazing start! Its always great when you can have a
lesson on a Monday, since we don't have too long to proselyte.
We met with Anna and Grselda and read the Book of Mormon with them.
They seem to love it and Grselda loved church! We taught them the Plan
of Salvation this week with Brother Jolley our Ward Mission Leader. They
were not able to make it to church this week because of Grseldas
sisters wedding. But we hope they can continue to progress and do well!
We are teaching them tonight (Tuesday May 27) and we will be teaching
the Gospel of Jesus Christ. They are so cool and so prepared for the
Gospel! Its great to see that if you just talk to people the Lord will
put people He has prepared into your path.
We had 2 lessons with Armour this week. We showed
him a mormon message, "origin" and discussed how important it is for him
to ask in faith and obtain an answer. He was finally able to connect
some dots by himself and he realizes that he needs to do more. He came
to church and stayed for the full 3 hours. He cancelled his lesson with
us this morning because he got a rough start today. We hope to meet with
him this Saturday.
We met with Catherine and she is set to be baptized
this Saturday. She met with the mission president and he is excited for
her to be baptized. Tonight we will be meeting with her and talking
about the atonement. We will also pound out the details for the
baptism.
It was super cool at church. She sits with us every week and I help
her sing the hymns (by the way, she attempts and does a really good job
with every song!). After church she came up and said that she realized
that this would be one of our last weeks to sit together since I leave
soon. She started to cry and it was super tough! We are so happy for her
to be baptized this week! She is super cool and she has a great
story!!!
We met with Jarmaris this week at brother Gardiners
house and he did another new member lesson with us. It was the Gospel of
Jesus Christ. Jarmaris has read the Book of Mormon, the Pearl of Great
Price, and the History of the Church (included in the triple
combination). He is working on the Doctrine and Covenants. And he's only
been baptized a few weeks!!!
So in less spiritual news... SWAT blocked off a few
streets to catch someone... and there was a sniper on top of one of the
church buildings. Pretty cool.
Also on a less
spiritual note. Which will help you get a view of the "preparation day
side" of missionaries... every companion that Elder Campbell has had has
done something called the 'Kool Aid Challenge'. You drink 15 'Kook Aid
Bursts' in 15 minutes without throwing up. Well I got through 7... and
then i didn't keep it down. Elder Campbell got down to having 3 and 1/2
left. But he didn't make it either. It was super fun but obviously a
'Memorial Day/P-Day' activity. :)
We also went on exchanges. I went with Elder Johnson
in the Young Single Adult Ward. It was a great day! We went to a less
actives house and she came out and said, "I'm not going to be the Prize
Heifer at the Cattle Auction". haha it was great! obviously she thinks
that ysa wards are just to get you married. Which I guess is true... but
I hope she still wants to go to church regardless of her circumstances
:)
This week was our last district meeting... of which I
will tell you more about last week. But This last week I was thinking
of something cool to do for Elder Johnson, who is going home this
transfer as well. So I asked him who his favorite Recent Convert was
that he was able to baptize. His name is Samuel and Elder Johnson met
him at the beginning of his mission. I got his number and had Samuel
come in as a surprise in district meeting for Elder Johnson. He talked
about his conversion and how he is now sealed in the Temple. I wanted to
surprise Johnson but also let the younger missionaries see what comes
from our work that we do.
We had Zone Conference this week. It was super good!
It was mostly on the Atonement. We had to host it and conduct. But it
still turned out good :). I gave my departing testimony. Which was hard
but good. I quoted a lot of Maxwell :)
Well I love you all! and hope you have a great week!
Love,
Elder John
There
was a funeral that we were asked to attend this week. One of our Recent
Converts nephews just died and they had the service at the church.
"Though otherwise a “lively” attribute, hope stands quietly with us
at funerals. Our tears are just as wet, but not because of despair.
Rather, they are tears of heightened appreciation evoked by poignant
separation. Those tears of separation change, ere long, becoming tears
of glorious anticipation." - Neal A. Maxwell
Monday, May 19, 2014
Transfer 17, Week 4, Lakes Zone, Desert Breeze Ward
Dear Family,
So this week was amazing!!!
So we've been teaching Cathernine and we talked to President
Ahlander to see if we could baptize a person that doesnt have an
address. After talking for a few minutes we came to the conclusion that
we could not deny someone the opportunity to be baptized if they were
truly converted. She is set for te 31st of May to be baptized and she
seems to be progressing very well. We taught her the Gospel of Jesus
Christ along with Tithing, Word of Wisdom, Law of Chastity, and the Ten
commandments. This week we are probably going to show her some videos of
President Monson to get her more familiar with our modern-day prophet.
We taught Armour and we watched the Restoration (20minute version)
to get him more aquainted with the Joseph Smith story. We also read Alma
32 with him and he really enjoyed it. He told us he was going to make
it to church and stay all three hours but he texted 10 minutes after
church started and said he wouldnt be able to make it.
On a brighter note, I dont remember if I said this in my last
letter, but Anna (the daughter of Grselda) is best friends with Ferrah
Jolley (daughter of our Ward Mission Leader). So we set up a lesson and
we all went over to teach Anna and her mom. We taught them about the
Book of Mormon and how they can read it and gain help from it. We
commited them to baptizm for the 14th of June, however we may have to do
it earlier because Anna is going to Mexico for a few months this
summer. Brother Jolley and Ferrah seemed to love the lesson! Bro Jolley
told us this Sunday in Ward Council that Ferrah said she wants to serve
a mission now. So cool!
It helps so much to have members fellowship! Brother Jolley at the
end of the lesson told Grselda that he would pick them up for church.
She was very appreciative and guess what! She made it to church! Hurray
for Fellowship!!!
We were also able to teach Sister Smith (the lady who Elder
Campbell taught last week with Bishop Warnick. We took Bishop Hunt with
us and he is very familiar with Sister Smith. She has been taking the
lessons on and off for years and he told her that she jsut needs to get
baptized. So we taught her the Restoration and commited her to baptism.
She was out of town this weekend in Arizona but we hope to baptize her
quickly. In the past she has seemed to be sketchy with being commited so
we are hoping that she is more committed now.
We had our second new member lesson with Jarmaris this week at
brother Gardiners house. He taught the lesson this time and it was on
the Plan of Salvation. He is a wonderful teacher and Jarmaris just soaks
everything in!!! Bro Gardiner asked me during the lesson, "what is your
favorite part about being a missionary and sharing the plan of
salvation with people?" I was caught off guard, almost cried (but I
stopped myself), and I think it is just being able to share the truth
with people that will actually accept and live it. If they will accept
it they will get a greater view of themselves and their potential.
We had a great opportunity to do some service for a less active
family in the ward. The Faircloths are a great family, Sister faircloth
and Natalia. Natalia is 9 and was baptized a few months before I got to
this area. they have not been to church since. However we have visited
them almost every other week and finally they allowed us to do some
service for them! We painted their wall in front of their house and we
picked the worst day to do it. Saturday was over 100 degrees! But it was
worth it because they came to church Sunday! The first time I have ever
seen them there!!
Well I think that was it for this week! This past week our ward was
really hiped up on missionary work! They are excited for the upcoming
opportunities in the ward boundaries!
I love you all!
Love,
Elder John
"Redeeming Jesus also 'poured out his soul unto death'. As we on
occasion 'pour' out our souls in personal pleadings, we are thus
emptied, making room for more joy"- Neal A. Maxwell
Monday, May 12, 2014
Transfer 17, Week 3, Lakes Zone, Desert Breeze Ward
Dear Family,
Wow! Such a great week! We got 6 new investigators this week!
So
the first one was Catherine. She is the one who is living on the
streets. We are working with members of the ward to get her in a place
to stay so she can get baptized.
We had 3 great lessons with her this week! We taught her the
Restoration, Book of Mormon, and Plan of Salvation. During our first
visit she brought up a site on her ipad. It had the top ten most bizarre
things that 'mormons' believe. And we went through them all, one by
one, and for the most part they were all true. and she believes in all
of them as well.
We were able to teach Dave and Diane finally. We
found them while coming out of Kims house. They are christian and when
we brought up baptism they said that they have already been baptized. We
explained that it is essential to have the correct authority to perform
baptisms. They will be a long project but hopefully they can come to
church and feel the spirit.
Elder Campbell was able to teach a former
investigator Sister Smith while we were on exchanges. I'm not really
sure how the lesson went, since I wasn't there, but she came to church
and we have a lesson set up for Tuesday evening!
On Tuesday night we went to an appointment which
fell through. As we were leaving we saw this lady walking her dog. We
asked her if she has ever met with missionaries and she said she has
not. We explained a little about the restored Gospel and she agreed for
us to come by on Saturday. So We stopped by on Saturday we taught her
and her daughter, Anna, the first lesson. The daughter said she would
pray every night this week to know if what we taught was true. Anna also
accepted to be baptized when she knows its true. Greselda, the mom is
going to be a little more tough. She is catholic bt she doesn't come to
church because she doesn't feel the spirit. We invited her to come to
church (she didn't make it this week) and we hope she decides to come
soon. Anna is going to be the backbone of their conversion. She seems to
really want to do what is right.
So those were our new investigators for this week!
We are so excited to have a lot of people to teach! it is still going to
be really difficult to meet with them but we are just excited to have
things looking up. Last week we were in the finding stage and we are so
glad that the work paid off!
So one of our potential investigators, Chris, tried
to make a deal with us. He works at the pool Hard Rock Cafe (i cant
think of a worse place for missionaries) and he told us that he would
listen to our message if we went and visited him there. We told him that
we cannot go. He then invited us to this festival (in our zone) where
he would have a booth. He then made the same deal if we came there. So
we decided to accept. On Thursday we went over to the festival after our
temple trip in the early afternoon, to avoid crowds. As we walked up we
decided not to go in. It might have been the 9 dollar entry fee mixed
with our already present hesitation that made us decide not to enter :)
We hope that doesnt truly effect him listening to us!
We met with Armour on Tuesday and we asked him to
pray for what it means to him that the book of mormon is true. he knows
its true but he just doesn't know what to do with that knowledge. He
said it is going to be a huge change in his life if he gets baptized. so
we told him to pray about it. He didn't make it to church this week but
he better make it next week!! :)
We had a great lesson with Jarmaris. It was his
first 'new member lesson'. Brother Gardiner came with us and he is such a
great teacher! Jarmaris said that he wants to serve a mission and when
we told him that he will have to wait a year he said that would be
perfect for his music career. We are so excited for him! We were able to
ordain him a priest yesterday! So cool!
It was so great to be able to call home and talk to my parents for Mothers day! I hope they had a mothers day too!!
Well I think that is all for this week!
I love ya!
Elder John
"If we are not serving Jesus,
and if he is not in our thoughts and hearts, then the things of the
world will draw us instead to them! Moreover, the things of the world
need not be sinister in order to be diverting and consuming." - Neal A.
Maxwell
Monday, May 5, 2014
Transfer 17, Week 2, Lakes Stake, Desert Breeze Ward
Dear Family,
This week went by super fast! I look at my planner and say, 'Wow! Its already Thursday?'
Well
this week we have been using a lot of our time contacting people. We
are in the rebuilding phase of the work. As we were walking the streets
we stopped to talk to this guy. He pretended he didn't understand
English even though he was totally white! We had a good laugh with him
and it was surprisingly one of the nicest 'rejections' I've had in a
while.
We had another experience while we were walking. We
had been walking for a while and we were just super bumbed out that we
hadn't been able to talk to a lot of people. The ones we had talked to
were either not interested at all, not nice, or it was just a really
awkward situation. So we were heading to our ward mission leaders house
to have coordination and we realized that we were not going to make it
on time if we didn't hurry. So we decided to start running. I thought it
would be really funny to see two guys in suits running on the sidewalk.
Then as we were running we saw this guy up a head. We wisely decided to
stop running. As we came up to him we asked him if he had a minute that
he could talk to us. He said, "I'm on my way to the groceries store and
I don't have much time. But I've been thinking of Joseph Smith and I
wanted to study it more." Wow! That was out of the blue! It was a great
feeling to have something good happen after a few hours of rejection.
We had a good lesson with a new investigator, Kim.
She is the mom of Reece (we found him by parking our car and walking up
to him near a gas station). She is a very nice lady who is looking for a
church. She said that she has tried all of these other churches and
that she hasn't felt the spirit in them. We promised her that she would
feel the spirit in this gospel if she sincerely prayed.
She has some trouble with comprehending a lot of what we teach but we hope that she will continue to progress well!
We
had a good lesson with Armour this past Saturday. On Tuesday we met
with him and he hadn't read. So we read with him. He had some good
questions but the lesson just went super slow and seemed really boring.
So on Saturday we came up with something we thought would be good for
him. Then when we got there he didn't read since last time we came! He
asked about repentance and we explained the steps. He felt really bad
that he didn't read. He realized that the 'task' was easy and he hadn't
been doing it. He was disappointed with himself. We gave him one of our
'missionary daily planners' so he could schedule 'read and pray' into
his day. Hopefully he will read!!!
That reminds me of a quote by Elder Maxwell! To me it tells me that
we are all still gods investigators that need to keep doing the same
things to learn lessons we think we already have learned.
"Given the tremendous importance of these virtues now and in the
world to come, should we be surprised if, to hasten the process, the
Lord gives us, individually, the relevant and necessary clinical
experiments? We do not usually seek these, however. Yet they seem to
come, don't they, even when we do not remember having signed up for a
particular course? Sometimes we find ourselves enrolled again in the
same course. Apparently we were only auditing before; perhaps this time
it can be for credit!"
-Neal A. Maxwell
We had another good
experience when we went to teach Andy. We got out of the car and waved
to a woman playing with her kids across the street from our appointment.
We had seen her out there a few times before but had never talked to
her. When we knocked on our investigators door they said they couldn't
meet. So as we were walking to the car I just thought, 'we really need
to talk to her'. We did and she was really nice. She has sat down with
missionaries before and she was open to going it again. She even said,
"If i don't call you in a few days, give me a call." usually people just
give us the 'dont call me I'll call you' scam!
We talked to her again this past Sunday and she said her schedule is really hectic and we could probably meet Saturday!
We
had a really cool experience with a woman that some of our members
found. The elders quorum went to clean the church and they found this
lady who was sleeping outside the church. They asked if she wanted a
Book of Mormon and she said that she already has one. They invited her
to church and she came!!!
When she walked in you could not tell that she was homeless! She
was really well kept and I guess she does it out of choice. She has a
gym membership and an ipad but she just chooses to live outside. She
sang all the songs we did, or at least she attempted even though they
were foreign to her. Then in gospel principles, as we were explaining
the Book of Mormon, she said, "I've always thought that. God doesn't
only love the people in Jerusalem."
Also our newest convert, Jarmaris, was super good with her! at the
beginning of Gospel Principles Jarmaris was asked to give the opening
prayer. He looked at the woman and asked her what her name was. Then he
prayed. His prayer was specific to her. He didn't pray about anything
else. He asked that she would have a good time in church and that she
would find out of the truthfulness of the Gospel. He is going to be a
great missionary!!!!
We have an appointment with her tonight at 7:30! I'll let you know how it goes!
well I think that's all for this week!!!
I love ya!
Elder John
"The
Lord loves each of us too much to merely let us go on being what we now
are, for he knows what we have the possibility to become! It is all
part of the journey of going home. Developmentally, we are all
prodigals. When we really "come to" ourselves, spiritually, we, too,
will say with determination, "I will arise and go to my Father". This
true celebration of the risen Lord, therefore, is one of emulation as
well as of adoration for him. Since he is risen from the grave, let us
not be dead as to the things of the spirit! How can we celebrate the
empty tomb with empty lives? How can we celebrate his victory over death
by being defeated by the world?" - Neal A. Maxwell
Monday, April 28, 2014
Transfer 17, Week 1, Lakes Stake, Desert Breeze Ward
Dear Family,
Great Week mixed with a lot of stress!!! But dont worry its good stress :)
So Monday we had a great day! We taught Andy about the Book of
Mormon. Things are going well with him. He has piano lessons on Sundays
during church so we are trying to go get him to change lesson times with
someone. He has some good friends that live close that are inviting him
to church. Hopefully his mom says he can get baptized.
Tuesday, the first full day of the new transfer, I had to tell
myself to be happy! So I am happy! It was a struggle to be happy on
Tuesday but now its not a struggle. Things are going well!
Tuesday we walked around neighborhoods to talk to people. We met a
few really good people in just an hour of walking the streets. One guy,
Ishmael, is Muslim but he went to the University of Utah and is really
familiar with LDS people. He talked to us for a while and we had a
really good conversation. He said he would be intereseted in meeting
with us. He also gave us a referral for a guy who lives on his street,
who might be interested!
Thursday we had a really good day! We taught Jarmaris and prepared
him for baptism. He is super solid! In the lesson he said, 'I am
starting to understand the Holy Ghost more. The only way I'm happy is
because of God, and its only when I feel the spirit that I am happy". He
is also getting his 'reading pattern' down. He is reading for a
specified time in the Book of mormon and then he reads a specified time
in the Doctrine and Covenants. His mom is starting to be nicer to him
and their relationship is continuing to grow.
One great thing that he said is that 'These people out there dont
even know that all this (the world) isnt their home. They need to wake
up and realize that we dont belong here. We are just in our days of
probation.' He also said that when he is playing a game on the xbox he
prays, 'I'm not happy because of this game but I'm only happy becuase of
you.' He is super solid... which brings us to his baptism this saturday
the 26th.
So we show up at 4:30 for his baptism at 5. It starts to get closer
to the time and our members are coming in and Jarmaris isnt there yet.
At 5:15 we called him 2 times and texted him a bunch. I just had this
sinking feeling that he isnt going to show up. Which was weird becuase
at this baptism I didnt feel as anxious as I normally do for a baptism.
This one I was just calm becuase I knew how solid Jarmaris was... but
then it started to worry us a lot! So it ended up that his mom, who was
supposed to take him, wasnt home and he had no way of contacing us
besides his moms phone. So in the end the baptism started 1 hour late
and someone had to pick him up. But he got baptized and he is still
really excited!
This week we had a great lesson with Ron. His wife is a member and
he is not. We have been trying to get in touch with them forever! We
talked to him about a month ago on his portch. He mentioned that he took
the lessons about 17 years ago. I told him that the teaching style has
changed and that he would love it. He told us to come by and its been
month since he said that. Well we finally had a lesson with him. We came
in and he made it super easy to get strait to the point. We started
teaching him and we told him that if we felt inspired we would invite
him to be baptiezed. As we taught we asked him how he has seen God in
his life and family. He said that during times when it was difficult to
find work and make ends meet he would pray for help and the next day he
would get a side job. After the lesson we invited him to pray and have a
moment of silence after, of which he could break, to allow the spirit
to give him answers. We had the longest moment of silence ever! it was
literally 2 minutes! But we invited him to be baptized and in the middle
of the invite he said, 'thats something I definitely need to do'. We
are meeting with him tomorrow (the 29th of april) and we hope it goes
great!
So Brother Brad Wilcox came to our mission this past saturday
morning and it was a great experience! He talked about how we are called
to our specific missions partially becasue of our mission president. As
I was thinking about that, Elder campbell pointed out that my love for
Maxwell has come primarily becuase of his association to our misison
president. Elder Maxwell has had a great impact on my life as I study
the way he teaches. He has helped me focus my love for knowing movie
quotes, in my previous life, to a love of memorizing and knowing the
gospel. He has had a great impact on my new love of learning and my even
greater love of the Gospel. I definitely believe that I was called to
this mission because of the effect that my mission president would have
on me.
Elder Campbell said the other day, "all the quotes you live have
big words. If theres a difficult word in it, its an Elder John quote".
Haha You've got to love Elder Maxwell!
I love you all and hope you have a great week!
Love,
Elder John
"Like goldfish in a bowl, some are mindless of who changes the
water and puts in the pellets, or, like a kindergarten child whose
retrieving parent seems a little late, concluding, "Man is alone in the
universe." Granted, some sincerely wish for more power in order to do
good, but only a few individuals are good enough to be powerful. But
craving power and the spotlight sucks out the spiritual oxygen, leaving
some 'past feeling'. Strangely, though desensitized, some are still able
to hear the beckoning click of a TV camera at a hundred yards. Doesn't
the churning over the places of mortal power remind us on the childhood
game of musical chairs?... There is an underlying reason, brothers and
sisters, for all this fleetingness: those who bestow the transitory
things of the world are, themselves, transients. They cannot confer that
which is lasting becuase they do not possess it! Some, so sensing and
seeing so little, want to have it all now!" -Neal A. Maxwell
Monday, April 21, 2014
Transfer 16, Week 6, Lakes Zone, Desert Breeze Ward
Dear Family,
This week went great! We had 3 lessons with Jamaris
this week. For the first lesson we had Ryan, a member with us. He is
super chill and seems to be helping Jamaris out. He shared his
experience of his mother dying when he was 11. That really hit Jamaris.
he said, 'man that guy lost his mom when he was young and I fight with
my mom all the time. He wishes he could just talk to her.' that's what
he told us after the lesson. When we met up for the third lesson, Ryan
came along. Jamaris told him how it hit him and Ryan was very happy that
it helped.
The baptism will be this Saturday at 1:30. We have a mission
conference with Brad Wilcox, a Church Education System speaker. That
meeting ends at 1 so hopefully we can clear the missionaries out in time
to hold the baptism!
Jamaris told us of some things that he has learned so far from
meeting with us. He said that he noticed his speech needs to change. He
has also realized that other people remember his name and he realized
how respectful it is to remember peoples names and shake their hands. He
is very excited to be baptized and to keep going! He has 25 mormon.org
cards that we gave him; he put our number on the cards and is passing
them out. He said, "you guys work really hard and it must be difficult
to get people to listen to you. I'll try to get you more people to talk
to". He is super solid!!!
We had a few lessons with Armour this week as well.
We brought a member from the ward, Brother Boyak. He is super good at
teaching, even though he apologized because its been a while for him.
Things seem to be going well with Armour. We've taught him all the
lessons except for all the commandments. This past Saturday morning we
read 2nd Nephi 32. When it talked about coming in by the way, he said,
"this seems like a kind of baptism. Then you get the holy ghost". I was
like, "YESSSSS!!!!" well in my head I was thinking that! He put the dots
together! We didn't have to do anything! The spirit is the best
teacher!
We got a referral for Eric and Alma. The address is
on a street with no houses so we just decided to drive over there and
see if we were mistaken. Well there were no houses there, so we called
them and they seemed excited. We asked for an address but they gave us
the same one that the referral said. We looked at the building number
and its a water store... So I will update you on what happens this
Tuesday at 6! I hope we get some good water!!!
We have some good potential investigators coming up.
Our ward mission leader is working with one of his friends who works at
home depot. We hope to start lessons with him soon!
We also
have a couple that seems excited to meet with us. We contacted the
husband outside their house a while ago, his name is Dave. Her name is
Diane and when we showed up at the time we agreed on she said, "oh dang
it. once I heard the doorbell I knew it was you. Sorry we didn't call
you but we will have to reschedule, we were just heading out the door."
That didn't sound too nice by just reading it, but pretend it was in a
'nice' voice :)
This past Monday we had a great Day! We only have
about 3 hours to proselyte on Mondays. But we ended up teaching 3
lessons! one to a less active family we had for dinner. Another to
Jamaris. and our last one was Andy. He is the grandson to the Chinese
woman that we taught. She was not interested but we taught him and he
said he would be baptized. So he just needs to get permission and we
hope to meet with him soon! We also had an encounter with a member from
one of the other wards after our lesson. We went to one of the church
buildings after our lesson and as we were coming out she was outside.
She said, 'What time is it?" I told her it was 9:25pm. Then she said,
"So you haven't retired home yet?" I answered, "No, we were just on our
way to". Then she quickly said, "so the answers no". I said have a good
night and we walked to our car. I guess she didn't realize that we just
came from a lesson. I love members always watching out for us :) :)
This past Tuesday we had a 'going away district
meeting' for Elder West, who goes home this afternoon (Monday the 21st).
We set up the hall as a terminal and the relief society room as an
airplane. We gave everyone tickets and had signs around that said 'Air
Canada'. then we all sit in the 'airplane' and watch Labor of Love. Its a
missionary movie that is set on a plane. Its a tradition to do
something like this the last district meeting of a missionary. so it was
super fun! He is a great missionary and will be missed!
Today we hiked a part of red rock. We hiked Calico
Basin. Its super rocky and basically its just climbing up a huge pile of
rocks and then coming down. Coming down was pretty sketchy but we made
it back with few injuries :)
Today is transfers and Elder Campbell and I are staying! Not really a surprise but we are glad to do so!
Well I think that's all for this week! Love you all!
Love,
Elder John
Monday, April 14, 2014
Transfer 16, Week 5, Lakes Zone, Desert Breeze Ward
Dear Family,
This week was great mixed with a little bad :(
So
Monday started off great! We taught Jamarus the first half of the plan
of salvation and on Wednesday we taught him the rest of the lesson. He
is progressing so well and he is very anxious to get baptized! This past
Friday our Ward Mission Leader told us that Jamarus texted him. He
asked him "Will I ever get an answer? I come to church and I feel good. I
read and I feel good. But whenever I stop I always feel bad again." So
we got to explain more about the Gift of te Holy Ghost and the influence
of the Holy Ghost. He is super excited to get the Gift of the Holy
Ghost. We hope that he will continue to rub off on his family so they
can believe in God too.
We met with a less active guy this week, Gary. He
said that one of his long time friends called him and as they were
talking Gary related to him that he was having a rough time. His friend
told him to go out and serve others. When we serve others we will
receive greater happiness. Gary said that he will try and serve more
throughout this difficult time in his life. He has severe health
problems but he is still willing to try to help others.
We were on exchanges this week and I was with Elder
Johnson in his area. We were contacting and we talked to this guy named
Greg. It was a great experience. Greg played football for Utah State and
he has been around LDS people/religious people all of his life. He has
chosen to distance himself from religion because of the conduct of the
people that he grew up with. As we talked with him we asked him what his
outlook on life was. Then we shared what ours is. We were just regular
people talking with him, and that is what people need. They need what we
have, but sometimes we try to give it in a way that they don't need it.
If we talk to them like regular people they will open up and give us
the opportunity to bring more light into their lives. As we finished the
conversation he said,"I'm not interested now but things change." We
hope that he will continue to have good experiences with members of the
church and choose to follow Christ!!!
This past week I realize how different I'm seeing
missionary work. How different I'm seeing how people need to change, and
my role in that change. I feel more effective when I'm contacting and
talking to people. I think, "Its taken me this long to figure this out?"
I'm so excited to be able to continue to learn and help people! We are
trying hard to find more people to teach!
On that note, our training for Zone Training went
really well. We did our training portion and there was a lot of good
conversation regarding 'Finding'. for the last 30 minutes we broke up
into groups and practiced contacting. We also had them video themselves
and then they can replay and see what they need to work on. It seemed to
go very well! We have a prize for the companionship that gets the most
'Contacts' in the week!
We had a really good lesson with Armour this week.
We taught him the plan of salvation and he had some really good
questions. He didn't come to church this week but hopefully he will come
next week :(
So for the bad part: Saturday we had service planned
for one of our potential investigators. He cancelled. So we got to help
our sisters in this zone wide project. The community that makes up the
Sisters Missionaries ward only allows garage sales 2 times a year. This
Saturday was one of those days. So the ward offers a pickup of goods
that people would like to donate. The whole zone blitzed the area and we
handed out flyers that told them the info about donating their extra
items after their garage sale. Well that took 3 hours, a lot longer than
expected. then we had lunch and went to a birthday party for a 3 year
old of one of the families in our ward. We then had to do some stuff at
the office with the assistants to prepare for the upcoming transfer.
Later, we were trying to visit people and no one was home! The worst
part was having to talk to some missionaries about being obedient. That
last part was really stressful! So that was pretty much our Saturday:)
To non missionaries that doesn't sound like too bad of a day but it just
seemed like we didn't get to do much work in our area. But I will be
grateful!!! That night I got a letter. In the letter the last portion
included a testimony. Paraphrasing it said "choose to be happy, because
this is a gospel of happiness. This work is a work of happiness and we
cant do it unless we are happy. So you better be happy Elder!"
That helped a lot! :)
Well I think that's all for this week! I love you all!
Love,
Elder John
"In
the agonizing atoning process, Jesus let his will be "swallowed up in
the will of the Father". As sovereigns, choosing to yield to the highest
Sovereign is our highest act of choice. It is the only surrender which
is also a victory! The putting off of the natural man makes possible the
putting on of the whole Armour of god, which would not fully fit
before" - Neal A. Maxwell
Monday, April 7, 2014
Transfer 16, Week 4, Lakes Stake, Desert Breeze Ward
Dear Family,
This week has been great! General Conference was so
amazing! Every speaker was so engaging and I'm so grateful that our
investigator got so much out of it!
Update on
Jamarus! We met with him on Tuesday and introduced the Book of Mormon.
We brought Brother Doxie with us and it was a great lesson! Before we
started the lesson Jamarus asked what the difference is between our
church and other christian churches. We said, "Priesthood". We started
to explain a little more and he said, "That's all you need to say. You
don't need to explain it anymore. I felt it on Sunday."
As we were reading from the Introduction of the Book of Mormon,
Elder Campbell told Jamarus that the Book of Mormon is written for our
day and for our specific challenges. As he was saying that, Jamarus
said, "I already know. Like, you don't even know. I already know that
this is going to help me".
So we had another lesson on Friday and we asked him how his reading
was. He said that he read the first book and he apologized that he
didn't read more. He said that he had to read it twice to be able to
understand it. We assumed that he just read the first chapter. But the
next thing he said made us realize that we were mistaken! He started to
say, "Nephi and all of them were raised in a good house, a religious
house. But it seems like Sam isn't really too into it. He is there, he
believes. but he doesn't really do the things that Nephi does. But he
still believes".
From that we realized that he didn't just read the first chapter.
We asked him if he read about them building a ship. He said, "Yeah, and
his brothers said 'you cant build a ship'." Wow! He read the first book
of Nephi from Tuesday to Friday!!! And he read it twice!!!
Jamarus was also able to come to our Ward mission
leaders house to watch General Conference and he really liked it! He
said that its so great that he is hearing this now because this is what
he needs. He also said that he used to by angry all the time and his
family is noticing what the Gospel is doing for him because he isn't mad
all the time.
There were a few things that stuck out to him and that he said
really were true. When the speakers would talk about fame, the world and
how it comes up short, how the family should be... and so on. It was
cool because right before the second session on Saturday he told us that
he has a hard time trusting girls because of his mom and so on... but
right in the next session one of the speakers mentioned trust and that
we need to trust people more. There were so many answers and so many
bells going off in Jamarus' head!
I also had some questions answered this week. I
always like to write down questions that I have in the weeks before
General Conference, and for the most part they are usually answered!
One
of the questions I had was "how can I distinguish peace in the world
versus peace in the Gospel?" My answer came in many different talks but
the one that stood out to me was in priesthood session with Elder
Nelson. My answer was basically that if there is truth in the world then
it is the peace of the Gospel. The two are not separate.
Also something I forgot to include in my previous
letter is an experience with our High Counselor over Missionary work in
the Stake. His name is President Nielsen and he was a mission president
in Poland. He is so good at talking to people about the gospel!
So he took us out to dinner and after the waitress took his and his
wife's order and right before she was going to take ours President
Nielsen said, "Do you know who these guys are?" then we got into a
conversation about the church and where she grew up and it ended with us
getting her contact info and she agreed to meet with us! She doesn't
live in our area but it was a really great experience! Remember to talk
to every one about the Gospel!!!
We had such an experience when we were eating dinner
at Wendy's this past week. The guy who took our order was really nice,
but the store was busy so we didn't talk to him too much. While we were
eating both Elder Campbell and I felt like we needed to talk to him. We
waited for him to come around to where we were sitting and we started
talking about his two jobs that he works and other aspects of his life.
We didn't get to talk about the Gospel yet because he had to go take
someones order. As we were getting ready to leave I saw Elder Campbell
waiting to go talk to him and it was super awkward. so I said I am going
to use the restroom to give him more time to talk to him. As I came out
they were shaking hands and the guy had a Restoration Pamphlet in his
hands!
Elder Campbell said that he came up to him and said, "Do you have
any extra pamphlets? I need to get back into church". It was awesome!!!
So
we are preparing to do a training tomorrow. Its Zone Training Meeting,
which happens every month. The Training is on "Finding people to teach".
We are focusing on "talking with everyone" and we are trying to get
missionaries to stop being so robotic and start just being themselves. A
part of our training is titled "Missionaries are people too" haha. So I
will update you next week on how our training went :)
On Monday we set a goal to find 2 new investigators
from the start of General Conference on Saturday to the end of General
Conference on Sunday. We set this goal because it is super difficult for
missionaries to get out and do a lot of work in between conference
sessions because of members, lunch, and just the fact that its not that
much time. So we went out in between the sessions and talked to as many
people as we could! The first person we talked to, Jasmine, is from
Armenia and we have a return appointment to teach her this Thursday. It
was a great experience because with each of the people we talked to we
had a good conversation with. We were able to get to know them and then
talk to them about the Gospel. Our other solid person we talked to is a
guy from Ethiopia and he said he would be at church this Sunday.
The only bad experience we had while talking to people was when we
saw this gangster guy walking on the other side of a residential street
and we started to walk toward him. We said something to him and he just
said, "Man! you are jay walking". After he yelled that at us I kinda
lost my patience with him already so I just started to walk away; I knew
that anything else I said would just have been out of anger haha. So as
we walked away Elder Campbell said, "Have a nice day." To which he
responded, "You Jay Walking again! You're breaking the law. Mormons are
crazy!" Haha it was so funny!
We were contacting a referral and they were not
home. as we were leaving we saw a woman doing some yard work. We talked
with her for a while and a concern came up about the Book of Mormon. She
said she couldn't believe something like that. We gave her the
background and explained the Book of Mormon and she loved it! People are
just misinformed and we need to tell them the truth!!! Her name is Lisa
and we will be calling her next week to set up an appointment.
We taught Armour on Tuesday and he said he doesn't
want to set a date for baptism yet but he does want to work towards it.
So we will see how that goes! We don't think he watched conference which
is a bummer but he did say he will come to church this week!
Well I think that's it for this week!
I love you all!
Love,
Elder John
"Life's
comparatively few ironies are much more than offset by heavens many
mercies! We cannot count all our blessings every day, but we can carry
over the reassuring bottom line from the last counting." -Neal A.
Maxwell
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